Pam was a lovely, very kind lady, and a great help to me and my daughter, Sarah, many years ago when she needed minding after school until I got home from work. If ever I was going to be unexpectedly late, Pam would always happily say that she'd give Sarah something to eat with Jo and I wasn't to worry. I really appreciated this. That was the start of a lifelong friendship between those girls. With love to all the family.